How to treat the Psychological trauma of the survivors in the earthquake

As we know, Chinese people in Sichuan suffered a strong earthquake on May 12. Many people lose their lives and home. We should try our best to help them! We pray for the dead and deliver relief goods to the earthquake victims. But there is an important thing we can’t neglect--- the Psychological trauma of the survivors.

When the wholesale mp4 players disaster happens, mental trauma could be a hidden toll for many survivors. So try to understand and feel what the victims have experienced. Here is a list for what we could say and couldn’t say.

We could say:

I feel sorry about the suffering and danger what you have experienced.

You are safe now (If he is really safe).

It’s not your fault.

Your reaction is normal when encounter unusual incidents.

How you feel now is very normal and everyone who has the same experience would make a same response.

Seeing/hearing/feeling/smelling this makes you feel grieved/ painful.

You will not be crazy.

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You needn’t restrain your feeling. You can let off any feeling such as crying, anger, hating, revenge and so on.

We couldn’t say:

I know how you feel.

It’s lucky that you are alive.

It’s lucky for you to get the things back in the earthquake.

You are lucky that you still have other children and relatives.

You are young and you can still go on your life/ find a mate.

Your lover didn’t suffer a lot when he/she died.

He/she is in a better place now and happier than before.

Something good will happen after the bad.

You will overcome and forget this.

Don’t worry. Everything is OK.

You shouldn’t have this feeling.

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